A couple of my friends thought it would be a good idea for me to start a blog to share my story, and hopefully give hope to those who are quadriplegic or paraplegic and their families.
My name is Tennille, and this is my story of how I became a ventilator dependent quadriplegic.
On Sunday, 31 October 2010. I was driving home from my sister's house after spending the night there, looking after her four sons. I was driving home the same way I drive every time I went there and I have driven the road thousands of times before.
Unfortunately, that particular October was very wet, and that weekend. It didn't stop raining.
As I was going through a sweeping right-hand turn, I hit a large pothole – which was caused by the bad weather we were having, as I corrected, I hit oil causing me to over correct. The rear of my car swung out, making my car travel down the road sideways. I was then hit on my rear passenger side by a speeding car that was travelling in the opposite direction; the impact caused my vehicle to spin in an anticlockwise direction. I was then hit on my rear driver-side by a second vehicle, which was also speeding.
This second impact caused my car to spin in a clockwise direction. My car eventually came to a stop when it hit the side rail, trapping me, as the driver-side was hard against the rail.
Two ladies – one of which was a nurse and the other CPR trained, climbed into my car and kept me alive until the paramedics arrived. I was air lifted to the Alfred Hospital, where I was operated on and placed in a medically induced coma.
My family were told not to expect me to live, and then they were told not to expect me to wake from the coma, followed by if I did wake up from my coma. I would not remember anyone or all anything.
On November 4th, I woke up and recognised my brother instantly. I then looked around the bed and saw and recognised my sister, Mum and Dad. I then heard a nurse say 'Tennille, if you can hear me blink twice' I did as she said and that's when I was told that I had been in a car accident.
Since that day, I have been fighting and beating all odds! Every day is a fight to try and get the ability to breathe on my own, move and feel again, but most importantly, fight to be the best mum I can possibly be to my son.
I haven't got anything back yet, but every day we live with hope. My injury level is C1 – and my neck is fused at my atlas and axis, and then fixed from my C1 to my T2, so I am unable to turn my head. Along with my ventilator, I have diaphragm pacing – which is just like a pacemaker for the heart, but obviously for the diaphragm, to assist me with my breathing.
Now that you know my story, I hope that you will continue to join me on a journey of my new life – the challenges, the triumphs, the good and the bad times and any achievements that I make that may give you some hope.
You are a true Inspiration. I look forward to reading more. xx
ReplyDeleteYou amaze me more and more each day with your strength and courage! I will never forget seeing the news about you, I cried and my heart broke. You are such an inspiration and you are never far from my thoughts..You are a wonderful mother, and a fantastic person! I am lucky to be able to call you a friend. xxxx
ReplyDeleteI have always been proud and very lucky to call you my friend but in the months since your accident my love and respect for you has grown beyond measure. YOU are stong determined and one of the bravest people I have ever known. YOU are an inspiration to me and to anyone that has been lucky to meet you. My family and I love you with all our hearts. You are the best friend, mother,daughter, sister, auntie and god mother in the world. Thank you for everything you do for others. I hope that your story inspires many people and gives them strength and the drive to never give up just like You xxxx
ReplyDeleteI hear all about you from your sister and I cant believe what you have gone through and all you are still going through. You are so strong to keep going. Keep it up T, and keep smiling. :)
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